Is the man who chooses the bad perhaps in some way better than a man who has the good imposed upon him?

I have a shelf of comfort books, which I read when the world closes in on me or something untoward happens.

माजरे–ए–इश्क हमने भी देखे बहुत,
वो दौर था कुछ जहां रूह से रूह को मोहब्बत होती थी।

Now my music is kind of pop-rock, right? If I&#39;m 25 and singing still, I don&#39;t want to be singing music like that.